Increase your trust in people.

12. Jan. 2008 von Robert Günther in Verbesserung

When you’re working in a tough environment you might have experienced that some people from time to time disappoint you. Maybe you’ve learned it the hard way by being let down by someone you trusted or you made the experience by listening to others stories. Nevertheless losing trust in colleagues also affects your overall trust sensation. In a business world were everybody first of all thinks of his/ her own you have to keep a strong mind and believe in people in order not do fall into depression and paranoia.

Steve Olson gives us in his blog 20 ways to expand your trust radius. I’ll take them down here as my own personal list and recommend the detailled explainations in his blog:

  1. Write down the names of the people you absolutely trust.
  2. Suspend your own position and gain understanding.
  3. Admit your mistakes.
  4. Admit your fears (at least to yourself).
  5. Use authentic words.
  6. When someone shares deep feelings or crazy ideas don’t judge them.
  7. Never intentionally hurt someone.
  8. Keep agreements, commitments, and promises.
  9. Have faith in those you choose to associate with.
  10. Embrace differences.
  11. Embrace disagreement.
  12. Act in the best interest of others.
  13. Be willing to ask others for help.
  14. Listen to and consider criticism.
  15. Give direct, specific, non-punishing feedback.
  16. Tell people you trust them.
  17. Have open free flowing dialogue. Never try to dominate a conversation.
  18. Accept people for who they are. Never demand they play a particular role.
  19. Practice Trust.
  20. Sit down when you interact with people.

Link: Steve Olson – 20 Ways To Expand Your Trust Radius

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